# \#sexual

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## [Whatever you're feeling about it, it's valid — and it's not your fault](https://sameboat.com/t/whatever-youre-feeling-about-it-its-valid-and-its-not-your-fault/120)

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**Last updated:** [July 26, 2026, 11:14am UTC](https://sameboat.com/t/whatever-youre-feeling-about-it-its-valid-and-its-not-your-fault/120 "2026-07-26T11:14:20Z")

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There’s no one “right” way to feel after sexual abuse or assault, and no correct timeline for processing it. Some survivors know immediately that what happened was wrong. Others spend years working out how to name it, es…