# \#help

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## [What not to ask a person with depression or anxiety](https://sameboat.com/t/what-not-to-ask-a-person-with-depression-or-anxiety/124)

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**Author:** [@sameboatadmin](https://sameboat.com/u/sameboatadmin)\
**Replies:** 2\
**Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 9:49am UTC](https://sameboat.com/t/what-not-to-ask-a-person-with-depression-or-anxiety/124 "2026-08-19T09:49:36Z")

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Most people who say the wrong thing to someone with depression or anxiety aren’t trying to hurt them — they’re trying to help, and just don’t know how it lands. But some of the most common things people say end up making…

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## [Talking to your GP about pain that doctors can't explain](https://sameboat.com/t/talking-to-your-gp-about-pain-that-doctors-cant-explain/167)

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**Author:** [@sameboatadmin](https://sameboat.com/u/sameboatadmin)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [August 19, 2026, 9:16am UTC](https://sameboat.com/t/talking-to-your-gp-about-pain-that-doctors-cant-explain/167 "2026-08-19T09:16:24Z")

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You have had tests. You have had scans. You have seen multiple doctors. And still, no one can tell you exactly what is causing your pain. This experience is more common than you might think. Many people live with chroni…